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Introduction Terminology
Relationships with … … anyone … ⚕︎ doctors
People's desires … … caused us to create Care Systems … … until the closing phase of life.
Lessons Learned : 🩸 blood pressure meter, 💊︎▦ pill-organizer-planner-sorter, upright rollator.
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If, three years from now, you share responsibility for a loved-on whose mind and/or body is falling apart, you will wish that today you had started to learn about this material.
In 2023, the current state-of-the-art is the book Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Dr Atul Gawande. This book is about our struggle to cope with the constraints of human biology. Where our current medical power to control human biology is finite.
This book is about our struggle to cope with the constraints of human biology. Where our current medical power to control human biology is finite.
This article is basically my notes from this book.
[ Notes from me alone appear in spaced-out, bold square brackets. ]
[ This book seems to be the opposite of the poem: Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light. … — "Do not go gentle into that good night" by Dylan Thomas. ]
[ Or maybe this book is a compromise effort — an effort to: Do what we can, with what we have, where we are. — Teddy Roosevelt, 26th President of the 🇺🇸 USA, slightly reworded by me. ]
Perhaps someday, there will be better materials. But today, this is what I know:
[ If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there. — George Harrison. ]
Activities of Daily Living ADL Instrumental Activities of Daily Living IADL
Social Determinants of Health SDoH
[ Seems to not include babies nor toddlers. ]
[ Seems to include most adults. Tweens, teens, and 20-somethings are picking up these skills. ]
Plus, see socioemotional selection theory SST.
[1] [ If you provide any of the services above for someone else, you are a caregiver / carer:
Really 👂︎ listen to people:
Relationships between ⚕︎ doctors and patients follow one of several models:
[ Plus, expanding on Dr Gawande's discussion with the info in Four Models of the Physician-Patient Relationship and The Four Models of the Physician-Patient Relationship. …
Questions may come from fear — answer them.
The job of ⚕︎ doctors is to enable wellbeing, where wellbeing is about whatever reasons that person wishes to be alive, at whatever stage of life that person happens to be, at that time.
According to socioemotional selectivity theory SST …
Young healthy stable people focus on:
People who are old, ill, or about to-move:
Terminally-ill people want to:
Thus, we attempted to create care systems consistent with this …
Standard medical care treatment priority:
Hospice treatment priority:
In terminal illness, that means focusing on:
Job of any ⚕︎ doctor [ or 3-Stage Retirement Village 3SRV / CCRC / LPC / LPRC / LTCF ] is to:
Three Plagues of Nursing Home Existence:
Eating alone is not very stimulating.
The chance to shape one's story is essential to sustaining meaning in life.
[ For all 💉︎📅︎ 🇺🇸 vaccines applicable to you, make an appointment to protect you against ⚰💥︎🏥︎ severe disease.
If it applies, review the Dementia Road Map: A Guide for Family and Care Partners. ]
Remember the narrowing focus, to here and now — the people and experiences near us.
A mounting series of crises, from which medicine can offer only temporary rescue.
[ With 📱︎☎ 911 , or ] in the 🏥︎ ER/ED or hospital, you may lose all control over your care:
Review sections on hospice treatment priorities ↑ above, and Lessons Learned ↓ below.
[ If it applies, review the Dementia Road Map: A Guide for Family and Care Partners. ]
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📅︎ Way ahead of time, we should:
[ In addition to the above:
[ We are all temporarily-abled. — Source unknown, I heard it a long time ago. Although on 2018-10-02, I heard Dr. Siddhartha Mukherjee say that ⚕︎ doctors understand very well that they will soon be on the other side of the exam table. ]
[ There are four types of anesthesia: Local, numbing a small area, such as a dentist numbing a tooth before working on it. Regional, numbing a large area, such as an epidural for the pain of childbirth. Sedation, somewhat-suppressing the central nervous system, while still letting the patient follow verbal instructions, such as for colonoscopies or removal of wisdom teeth. General, greatly-suppressing central nervous system activity, causing unconsciousness and total lack of sensation, for invasive procedures such as surgery. ]
[ Design everything for your future self: 🚧 Build your websites with text large-enough, contrast high-enough, and all that accessibility stuff. Design/​acquire/​modify your 🏠︎ home with your ♿ future abilities and limitations in mind. Etc. ]
[ 🇺🇸 In the USA, you can use data from Medicare.gov to find a good ⚕︎ doctor, 🏥︎ hospital, nursing home※, rehab, home services, supplies, equipment, etc. > your need > your location > set Sort by to Overall Rating, if possible > look for good overall and patient satisfaction ratings; or 📱︎☎ 1-800-MEDICARE. 🇺🇸 In the USA, you can use data from US News and World Reports to find a good ⚕︎ doctor, 🏥︎ hospital, senior living※, Medicare Advantage company, drug, treatment, or diet > your need > your location > set Sort By to Ranking, if possible > scorecard, outcomes, etc. ※ = Search carefully for 3-Stage Retirement Villages 3SRV / CCRC / LPC / LPRC / LTCF. TODO: write this section. BTW, even if you or your loved one is in one of these facilities, y'all need to work out who is going to: • 🍳︎🧹🛀︎ cook, clean, bathe, etc.; • 📅︎ 🚗︎⚕︎ maintain a calendar, take to doctors appointments, etc.; • 🍲︎ 💊︎ give food and medications; • 🍲︎ maintain a food supply in fridge; • 💊︎▦ set up a pill-organizer-planner-sorter, and keep a steady supply of refills; • verify, clean and replace parts in hearing aids; • 💪︎🧠👥︎ see to exercise, brain, and social needs; and • handle all the other Instrumental Activities of Daily Living IADL. ]
[ Learn all you can from local sources, and academia. ]
[ Do not fear the 🩸 blood pressure meter, 💊︎▦ pill-organizer-planner-sorter, upright rollator. ]
[ After using my US$43 (€40) Costco blood pressure cuff for some months, I found …
If you want to measure your real blood pressure:
If you want to screw up your blood pressure reading (probably make it read artificially-high):
[ I heard medical professionals call it a 💊︎▦ mediset, but pill-sorter, pill-organizer or pill-planner are more specific, and Search Engines say are more commonly-used. I prefer pill-sorter.
Regardless, starting to use one too early is way better than starting too late:
[ Do not fear the walker, uh, upright walker, uh, rollator, and now, the upright rollator. They are terrific. Starting to use one too early is way better than starting too late:
They prevent falls!
Old-time walkers — the kind with four posts with rubber covers on the bottom — are sometimes called an "upright walker." Which is a terrible name, as we will see below.
Forget the walker. Rollators are much better — with four large wheels, two with brakes, controlled by hand-levers with three positions:
Besides, rollators usually have a shopping basket or bag that holds what you need: the package you just picked up, and your every-day carry EDC: wallet, sweater, sunglasses, flashlight, magnifier, whatever.
And rollators often have a padded platform that can be used as a seat — if you get tired, just set the brakes, turn around, and sit down!
The rollator above works great. But after seeing a new design in use, I greatly prefer this new design shown in the video ↘ below or to right.
Short of this, look into trekking poles, such as the Urban Poling series Activator. ]
63% of doctors overestimate future survival time. By an average of 530%!
17% of doctors underestimate future survival time.
Risk factors for falling (and breaking your hip):
Cancer costs are U-shaped:
25% of Medicare spending is for 5% of patients, in their final year of life.
More than half of those living in 3-Stage Retirement Villages 3SRV / CCRC / LPC / LPRC / LTCF run through their savings. [ ]
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